The Strange Change Rage
Some friends
are permanent, some friends are temporary, some are touch and go while some are
purposeful, some are not so serious and most others are clueless as to where
they stand! Whatever might be their status, there seems to be a particular
drift of locations which tends to eat upon their relationship! As people move
to new institutions or new workplaces, the connectivity among the friends with
whom we had energized our time and fueled our memories, seem to wither away! They
begin to act like a brood of chicks that tether within their barn totally
focussed on twitching for their worm with secondary conscience that their flock
is just around them! With a change in
surroundings and accumulation of new friends, the importance of the old pals unintentionally
reduces!
In general,
people tend to maintain their strong bonds with the ones who have always been
close to their hearts. The real fiasco uproots when the best buddies seemingly
accuse themselves to have changed a lot and claim the prioritization of the new
people in their lives! Possessiveness pangs up from its roots and devastates
into a huge sombre tree with increasing branches of quarrels and a mutual
accusation springs up!
The like poles tend to repel when placed in a magnetic field!
Alas, an atrocious field which comprises of separation, inexplicable loneliness
and the exasperation of missing themselves! Those who cross this acid test, understand,
empathize and keep the trust in their friends are the ones who finally end up
soldering their dreams and splicing up their relationship stronger than one can
imagine! One has to realize that it is the innumerable amount of love and
affection for the friend that makes them struggle to keep their relation steady
and strong! These are the ones who can proudly call themselves as besties!
Because after all, ‘best friends’ is not a proclamation, it is an exclamation
of a testimony and a cheerful acclamation of the harmony!
Beautifully put forth in words :) and so true that, we find different people in different stages of life, but a few are destined to be ours till the end! And those few are your best friends :) Loved it ;) ;) keep going! :D :D
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